Showing posts with label Talk. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Talk. Show all posts

Apr 7, 2009

Being Happy is Just Being Happy.

Sometimes, I wonder. Wait. i amazed myself. How could i look rather happy. I don't know. Maybe i never take things seriously. People could go and say u are this that and i would just smile and laugh with the matter. A LOT OF studies and researches have been done on this state of being happy. And they say that happy could make you younger, happy can make you thinner, happy can help other people. IDK but IMO i can help some of you guys live a large lifelessly life happily with that endorphine induced tranced whatchamacallit state.
1. To be happy you must throw away ur worries for a while. Go and do things that you would never thought of doing. me? I love all sorts of things. Now among my favourite things to do is catching up with whatever sorts of anime in the anime world. To do that you must have time on your own. If you like, what? i don't have time for what i want. I am buried under this assignments/works/books/paper or etc. How dare you asks me to set aside this things. Well get yourself an hour or two to pamper yourself. you'll be amazed.
2. To be happy you must have nescafe. ak jadi promoter nescafe plak... IDK try having somthing you long to indulge at. ice cream/spa/holidays/ anything that requires you to spend money. hehehehe. But to do this you must have company. Yes, company. Company is a must. no ambiguity here ok. Company as in friend. bring your bestfriend/s out and agree on one thing and go spend your money on it. I admit i have done this. Cough cough cosmo cough cough. I admit at first i was a little hesitant. To throw away money is not my strong suit. But i spend money on it. and guess what. It was a worth it experience.
3. To be happy is a state of mind. to achieve it you must forgive. Forgive every wrong your friends have done to you and you feel happier. really? well if you still dwell in that sin that friend of yours have done towards you, you will inevitable feel guilty about it. and guilty is one of the roadblock towards happiness. Hey not just your friends you yourself must ask for someone's mercy if you done anything bad and all. don't say that i preach but never do anything bout it. i have forgiven my friends. thousands of times already. till they get to an annoying point where i think that i could not forgive them, but i manage to pull in deep breath and exhale away the feeling. Best. try it sometimes.
4.To be happy is to be with someone you love. Try calling or sms-ing you loved one. call and say you just call to know whether they fine or not, how life and all. it is better after a few call.

I'm not sure whether this writing has values or not. but to be happy is subjective. you can be happy with the thing but not ither person. another man's junk is another man's treasure. or something similar to that. so if reader want to try my way of being happy go ahead. you might give yourself a suprise.

Feb 21, 2009

Random Act Of Kindness

Just came back from my weekly prayer this morning and I saw something cute this morning. Cute? I don't have the right vocabulary to say what the feeling of watching it could be described as but imagine this. you wake up one day after a very sweet dream. You smile knowingly though unconciously you don't remember the dream and YET the warm feeling rise up inside you. Like a surge of waves crashed onto the beach and reconstruct everything till the vista changes. That's the warm feeling I am feeling after watching one little act of kindness done by a kid in a LRT station.She gave up her seat and how the old man was smiling till the ear was a photographic event I must say. I could just grab a camera and take the photo and watch the moment stayed still and not fade away. You all must agree with me when I stated that a single random act of kindness could bring up a smile to everyone. Wish everybody would do the same and the world would be a different place. Friends meeting up "saying how do you do? but what they mean is I love you". Hey don't say I never done anything good. I have.
Few little that you could do are:
1)Smile - It is contagious like most people say. So go on spread this smilling disease.
2)Listen - Talk to those in need. Listen to what they have to say.
3)Hug - It might not be appropriate to some but when it is try. Hug your mother and peck her on the cheek. See what would happen. probably not to some strangers though.
4)Throw some $$$ away - You might think for what, but what you do might be repay tenfold. Every religions agree on this i must say. Pahala? Good Deed? Karma? lalalallalalala.. ;)
5)I don't know... just do something good today and you will know why.

I know you know what I don't know,
Let's just pretend we both know,
Cos' something might conjure something,
out of something, from that someone.
and it might suprised us.
Running out of option?
Try rubbing it with lotion,
Then you can see it in motion.
Doubt might come and make you hesitate,
Let him make a mistake,
nothing you could not make,
with imagination, it's a piece of cake.
Love is loveable,
Hug is huggable,
Smile is smileable.
Productivity is in the word,
Just write anything on the board.
till you have nothing to say.

p.s - it's a spur of the moment thing. kishishishishis.. lma da tak bwat org gelak.